Need advice

[Hersheykissx0]

So I am really conflicted right now and cannot fall asleep. My ex and I have now been back in a relationship now for I guess about 2 months. And for the most part there has been improvement. There are of course still problems that need to be fixed. But right now the major problem is our communcation...it sucks. And I told him that yesterday and he said he will make an improvement. We just always are having misunderstandings. And then when I say how I feel he thinks I am trying to start an argument so he just looks at the text and doesn't reply because he cannot deal with arugements. But in order for a relationship to work we need to communciate. He can't just not talk about something when he isn't in the mood. And he does that...a lot, like right now. Last time I heard from him was many hours ago when I told him "it isn't okay that you don't let me know." And of course he doesn't reply. We had plans today and he said he would get back to many and didn't. See I would be okay if this happened once in awhile but this happens a good amount of times. I am never his priorty. And I can't even try to talk about him about it since he won't after because he thinks I am trying to argue. But it just gets me 10 times more mad that he doesn't answer. I just don't know what to do. We have had an on and off relationship for many years. And I really was/am trying to make this work but I can't be the only one making effort and changes. But I am just tired and fed up at this point. It gets to me that he doesn't answer. You are supposed to answer your girlfriend I would think. It is bull****. And who knows where he is right now...prob at the bar with his boys. I just deserve to be treated better. And in this relationship I have always been there for him but it would be nice if he can be there for me. It just doesn't feel like a relationship. So my question is do we need a break from each other? Or should I try working this out and send him a text? Or let him contact me? Let me know, thanks

[Aemilian]

I'm in a very similar situation right now. The way you describe him, he seems very immature. I would say that you should just give it time and focus on yourself more than him. I know that's hard to do sometimes, but surround yourself with friends and things you like to do- don't be afraid to be "selfish." If it isn't better in a week or two, trying getting together and confronting him head on about it. That way, he'll have no choice but to respond, and I believe it'll be much easier to know what you have to do after that.

[Ms Darcy]

If you are always having misunderstandings maybe you two are not compatible with each other.