My G/F is friends with her rapist. What do I do?

[Doc Blaze]

She is afraid of the morning after pill because it has a side effect of nausea.

 

seriously...

[Natasha24]

She is afraid of the morning after pill because it has a side effect of nausea.

 

She would rather unwillingly have someone else's baby than vomit for a few hours??

 

She is playing you for a fool and you're falling for every trick in the book. Move on!

[amipushy]

All this will end in a train wreck, and you are just clinging to the train looking for the brake. But, there is no brake and you cannot stop it. Nor can you save her because she doesnt want to be saved.

 

Seriously, they have something intense going and in their minds they belong together. And sick as it is, there is nothing you can do or say that will change that. So jump off now before you crash and burn.

[JohnDoe1996]

I am afraid that all of this is true.

[annie24]

seriously...

 

Yeah, pregnancy causes months of nausea!! Or the pill a few hours..,

[FYI]

I don't think he raped her. I don't believe that part of the story. Some women feel that if they have consensual sex with a guy and later regret it that classifies as a rape and it does not. This isn't happening on accident; the talking of your girlfriend and her ex. It's on purpose and you're caught in between the middle of it. Is your love really that deep that you can continue to go on like this? Because I don't see it getting any better only worse. God help you if you get her pregnant. You think things are really bad now, then you haven't seen nothing yet. So I think maybe this might be your cue to hit the road while you still can.

[rosephase]

I am afraid that all of this is true.

 

Then leave. Really.

[greywolf]

I can handle her anxiety issues. What I can't handle is this ****ing ******* manipulating her and essentially stalking her. When I made her break it off with him, she resented me for it and I don't know how to handle the repercussions.

 

You can't make her do anything, so you either have to accept that she is ok with him in her life, or you need to walk away.

[annie24]

JohnDoe - You can be her friend, and support her in that way, but I think it's pretty clear to all of us that she is too emotionally damaged to be in a relationship with you or anyone right now. She probably needs a few years of therapy and a psychiatrist before she'll be suitable relationship material. So do yourself and her a favor and let her go romantically. And don't try to find women to rescue, like you couldn't with your mother.

[Lonewing]

He purposefully held her down and came inside of her.

 

And she didn't turn him in right then. Or the next day. Or the next week. Wake up and smell the coffee.

 

And before the activists come out all angry about this many being out there and basically being a rapist, relax, he'll get what's coming to him. If she's pregnant, it's called a Child Support payment plan, for the next 18 years. Chances are, though, she's going to go back to him anyways, so he'll be tied to her anyways.

 

Get out of Dodge.

[chitown9]

Also, he found out her ovulation day? How did he do that, I wonder?? She has you buying in to all her drama. You seriously need to bail.

[SapphireNoir10]

You are making excuses. Deep down you must question these stories. You know shes no good for you. Life could be so much easier if you just walked away and let her get on with it.