Are guys a softie when it comes to girls/girlfriends?

[parkbom]

softie as in feels vulnerable when their girlfriend cries, or hurt, or sick. Wants to be by their side and take care of them

 

My boyfriend wants to always spoil me and wants to do his best to provide for me. We only been going out for 5 months. It's like when he gets mad, he forgives me but needs to calm down for couple days or weeks or months to get over it. He got mad at me for something I said, but when I had my head down and looked all guilty and innocence. He dragged me and made me sit on his lap and I saw a smile on his face like it's glowed lol. So are men softies, not saying all but most?

 

I said I felt weak and tired and he said he wants to baby me and take care of me. When I feel sick or have stomachache he makes sure i'm ok and gets worried. He even worries when I go out with my friends like clubbing which I only went once when I started dating him. He always tells me not to get too crazy or wild and he always want to make sure i'm ok.

 

im not talking about those insensitive guys... who only cares about themselves. I know all guys isn't a softie, but when it comes to love and things like that.

[petite]

Like some some are and some aren't. I'd be worried that he was getting a bit too possessive. You should be able to go out without him "worrying" about you. If you are an adult, you don't need to be babied and taken care of 24/7 and you should be free to do what you want without him stressing over where you are, what you're doing or getting possessive.

[Thorshammer]

Depends, with my ex i was crushed when she would cry. At some point she did it too much, and pushed way too many buttons, that it became routine and i ignored it. I would tell her the next day that i didnt want her crying, yadda, yadda. But, i dont buy the cry to get the bf to stop being angry bs, and if i am mad... i am mad, it stops on my terms, not because they are sensitive.

 

If you cry a lot, it will get old fast.