alwayssmile24 Posted June 29, 2012 Share Posted June 29, 2012 You can check my other posts for more background but i basically told my ex to stop contacting me and i'm done with all the games. now he has texted me and called me at least 5 times everyday. i went to prom with him (I'm a year older) because he had no one to go with (embarrassing for me to go back in itself esp as an ex) he ditched me the whole time then at prom weekend he slept with another girl. even more embarrassing. we broke up in october. played THE game until prom. i told him after to stop talking to me and I'm so over it all. he keeps texting me asking to go to lunch or ice-cream. begging me to answer him. he called me 5 times last night he has his friends text me to talk and randomly they'll say "oh can u answer (name) he says its really important" there's nothing to say. i told him goodbye. i don't know if i should answer or keep ignoring him.. he's never lost me before besides a month (december) we both didn't speak. the second he had the chance to he told me how much he missed me and stuff. do i answer? is he only panicking? help please i don't know whats going on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alwayssmile24 Posted June 29, 2012 Author Share Posted June 29, 2012 he last said " its really important and you won't give me the time of day.." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cherryx Posted June 29, 2012 Share Posted June 29, 2012 Talk to him. Pick up the phone next time he calls, you need to give him closure and let him know you're ready to move on. He may need you to explain what went wrong for him to be ale to move on. If this fails then you need to completley ignore him, change your number and block him from any networking sites you may have! Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alwayssmile24 Posted June 29, 2012 Author Share Posted June 29, 2012 we've done that so many times though. he's EXTREMELY controlling..so he just wants to know I'm still there and that he can get me in his grasp again. and i feel like if we talk now i won't be able to resist Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
camus154 Posted June 29, 2012 Share Posted June 29, 2012 Do not talk to him. Continue to ignore him. If he doesn't give up after a week or two, consider exploring options to block him through your phone provider. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
markfromark Posted June 29, 2012 Share Posted June 29, 2012 he's EXTREMELY controlling..so he just wants to know I'm still there and that he can get me in his grasp again Here is the reason for his behavior, it's text book. Don't cave in. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amipushy Posted June 29, 2012 Share Posted June 29, 2012 This man is NOT your best friend. He is not even your friend. Friends dont do that to each other. He is an ex-bf who is messing with your head because you are letting him. Of course you can resist, you just choose to tell yourself that you can't, and its clear that you still live in hope that some day he will knock on your door and undo all the bad stuff. But he won't, he doesnt want to and he never will. When he finds someone new, and he will, he will continue to contact you just to let you know how good she is at everything, how much fun she is, how much he is into her and how much better she is for him than you. Until he gets bored of course, then you won't even exist. Is that what you want for your yourself, your life? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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