surfzoo Posted June 28, 2012 Share Posted June 28, 2012 I've known this girl for about 4 months. We've been hanging out as friends for all of those 4 months. Recently I realized I've been developing feelings for her so I wrote her a letter explaining how I felt about her and gave it to her. A day later all she said about it was that it was sweet. Nothing else. We continued to hang out as friends, seemingly ignoring that letter. Two days ago we went out to eat and decided to smoke hookah after. While smoking, I would try and inhale the smoke she was exhaling getting closer to her but pulling away. Then she took in a bunch of smoke and motioned for me to come closer. I did and she kissed me. We made out for a bit and that was it. I stopped because I was so nervous my legs were shaking. I could kick myself for stopping. The next morning i picked her up to give her a ride to work. She told me that the person she was talking to is now suddenly in a relationship. I say im sorry to hear that and proceed to take her to work. For the last two days I have done nothing but try and figure out what the kiss meant, if she liked it, if it would happen again and hoping it does. I texted her about an hour ago and said "I want to kiss you again." To which there is still no reply. What is going on? I'm so confused as to her feelings about me and what that kiss was. Is she playing with me? Does she like me? What do I do now? Thank you in advance for any help given. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OracleofDoom Posted June 28, 2012 Share Posted June 28, 2012 She's playing with you. Go MIA on her...then reappear in 3 weeks...and then no more friends nonsense. You need to decide if you wanna be her man or her friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimjam07 Posted June 28, 2012 Share Posted June 28, 2012 You are a tad shy.. that's ok. I say she likes you.. but I would confront her and ask her what she wants.. (in regular conversation) friends, dating, relationship. And go from there. If she wants a relationship.. pluker up the courage to ask her out Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mylifebelike Posted June 28, 2012 Share Posted June 28, 2012 if ya have been friends for that long, im sure she does have to have some feelings towards you, so my guess would be make her jealous disapear then reappear with another girl nd start hanging out with her ,then eventually she will wanna go back to you...! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghengisT Posted June 28, 2012 Share Posted June 28, 2012 You are a tad shy.. that's ok. I say she likes you.. but I would confront her and ask her what she wants.. (in regular conversation) friends, dating, relationship. And go from there. If she wants a relationship.. pluker up the courage to ask her out Shy? Not Okay. You should have at least gone for the kiss 2nd date/hangout at the latest. It's better than trying to 4 months & trying to determine if she feels the same way. Here's some tips about attracting women: 1. Evolution favors the bold 2. Lead her. You make the decisions, do what you want (attitude). 3. Physical attraction opens means of communication (like a nice re'sume). If she likes your physical appearance, your attitude & conversational prowess gets her to give up that home run 4. If you didn't get physical with her off the bat, WARNING: too much communication lands you in the dreaded friendzone. (I used to be the guy who would spend HOURS on the phone w/ a girl. NEVER AGAIN) 5. She will friendzone you SOOOO fast. Guys usually know they're in love after 3 weeks. Women take about 2 months (of getting to know you). Says somethin' right? 6. Don't talk about what you. 7. Don't ask her what she wants EVER. This is a form of submissive behaviour. You're taking her scraps. Highly un-alpha & unattractive. Start here my friend: link removed if ya have been friends for that long, im sure she does have to have some feelings towards you, so my guess would be make her jealous disapear then reappear with another girl nd start hanging out with her ,then eventually she will wanna go back to you...! Her feelings are platonic by now. This is good advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
surfzoo Posted June 28, 2012 Author Share Posted June 28, 2012 So aside from leaving (I'm flying back to Hawaii tomorrow, she'll be in San diego) should I kiss her again? Just do it? I mean the worst thing that could happen would be she slaps me and never speaks to me again... I've been seriously considering walking up to her and just kissing her again. Too much? Thank you for all the replies! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
surfzoo Posted June 28, 2012 Author Share Posted June 28, 2012 So aside from leaving (I'm flying back to Hawaii tomorrow, she'll be in San diego) should I kiss her again? Just do it? I mean the worst thing that could happen would be she slaps me and never speaks to me again... I've been seriously considering walking up to her and just kissing her again. Too much? Thank you for all the replies! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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