btonyb321 Posted June 24, 2012 Share Posted June 24, 2012 I am new to dating sites and have an admirer that I do not fancy. Should I just not contact him or tell him kindly not to waste his time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedDress Posted June 24, 2012 Share Posted June 24, 2012 I think you should say something like "thanks for your interest but I do not think we would make a good match". A normal person will appreciate your being upfront. If they start asking "why" or saying nasty things after that, you can simply block them. I think it's the nice thing to do, though, to tell them you are not interested (otherwise they may over think, send you more messages, etc). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
btonyb321 Posted June 24, 2012 Author Share Posted June 24, 2012 Do not think just not answering and let them work it out for them selves might be kinder Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amipushy Posted June 24, 2012 Share Posted June 24, 2012 I always say "Thanks for your interest but I've just set up a date with someone. Good luck in your own search though." Works for me, and in any instances that it doesn't, I just block them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
countryboy71 Posted June 24, 2012 Share Posted June 24, 2012 we all have feelings even if its on the computer, if i get a not interested, i send them a nice message back, wishing them good luck, it says alot about the person, hopefully the person that is interested in you will do the same and just move on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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