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"In the moment" then "Gone"


onlyhansel

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I'm curious, has anyone experienced something like this scenario? (I'm sure someone has)

 

I met up with a woman last weekend, first time ever. We had a blast, I was really into the moment and the time I spent with her. Note she lives about an hour away so I essentially spent the weekend at her place. I felt attracted to her but I was just enjoying the weekend so I really didn't care. I was there to have fun. We ended up denting the walls a bit with the headboard, sex was good for a first time with someone.

 

Then I got home and felt as if I had made a huge mistake (not so much with the sex but everything else, yeah I know...oink oink) and the attraction just wasn't there anymore!

 

She calls and I felt obligated to tell her that I couldn't continue the relationship. I guess I was just swept away in the moment or was thinking with my penis?

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Something tells me once your sex drive peaks again you'll find yourself oddly attracted to her again. Funny how that works...

 

Sounds to me like you got what you (perhaps subconsciously) wanted, and now you're satisfied.

 

I wouldn't be surprised at all if that were the case. I felt in a way as if I used her but really, there was no talk beforehand about anything "more" and she seemed like she was just as into it as I was. I didn't go there with the intention to get "laid" but just to enjoy the weekend however it panned out. It surprised me when she called after asking for more afterwards, I guess I should have expected it. Perhaps she was using sex as a lure? hmm!

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You didn't use her...she could have said no. In fact, an hour away is not that far..she could have made sure the date was early enough so that you wouldn't stay over. It was actually rather foolish of her from a safety standpoint to have you stay over when this is the first time you have met.

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