After first date advice.

[SkylerSage]

Hi all,

 

I had a first date with a guy I've been in contact with for less than a week and we had a lovely dinner night, followed by a walk around a calm river where we talked even more than what we did during dinner.

We kissed and he grabbed my hand because I was cold.

 

I don't think I have a complain about anything we did, but today he was very close to my house with friends (I knew he was coming to a party close to where I live because he told me about it), he asked me if I was going and I said I wasn't sure and most likely wasn't going to be there because I'm not into block parties or however people call them nowaday.

 

I'm not planning to meet his friends yet, I think it's too soon.. Am I correct?

 

The issue I have is that I haven't heard from him at all and he is less than 3 miles away from me, I texted him "Thinking of you" and he replied back with a "You are too sweet!". But that was the only message I have from him today.

 

Ok, I know he is having fun with friends but when I'm interested in someone I always find time to see how they are doing and if I can see such person for at least a few minutes.. even more if we live 30 minutes away from each other.

 

Can someone give me a perspective? Because I'm very confused on how guys act sometimes, it's very confusing.

 

Thank you.

[amipushy]

One date does not make a relationship. Just because you behave in that way when you are interested in someone, doesnt mean he does. Everyone is different and moves at their own pace. You know where he is, what he is up to, so 'let go' of him and any expections and let him enjoy himself with his friends.

 

Constant texting, checking-up and placing demands from a man you hardly know and met only once will destroy any chance you have at a (healthy) relationship.

[Batya33]

I think it is unrealistic of you to expect someone you met one time to include you in a plan with his friends.

[SkylerSage]

I realized checking up on him isn't the way to go and I don't expect him to invite me when he is with friends. That's is why I said I don't want to meet his friends when I'm still getting to know him.

But I haven't heard from him in a long time and for some reason something inside of me is telling me that he is waiting for me to message him, don't get me wrong..

I wouldn't mind doing so, but if he is interested then he should take a second to at least say hi.