FineFrenzy888 Posted June 13, 2012 Share Posted June 13, 2012 After writing me a long apology email, then finally breaking down and telling me she wants me back and will do anything....she even wants to do therapy if that will fix the relationship. It's been about 3 1/2 months since the breakup and i went NC since day 1. Every day has been a struggle but i've remained strong until now. I told her that maybe we could speak over coffee or food and i left it at that. So we are supposed to meet next week...but i still have time to think it over. To be completely honest, i miss her love her and want nothing more but to be back together i am just SO scared of getting hurt again by her. She broke up with me saying she wanted to go down her own path and see what else was out there. Came back and said she realized what she had and missed me. What are your thoughts'? This forum has helped me alot and i take your opinions seriously. I don't know which road to turn. Listen to my heart, or no? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneSadPuppy Posted June 13, 2012 Share Posted June 13, 2012 That's a tough one Fine. I personally don't think I could ever take anyone back who left me for those reasons. It just exposes a coldness and nievity in them that I'd be uncomfortable to move forward with. I understand the ease of falling back into a familiar relationship where your feelings are still raw, but for how long? You are young. That weighs in your favor. Do you think this partner will not seek greener pastures again? OSP Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rickyspanish Posted June 13, 2012 Share Posted June 13, 2012 Give it a shot. your here posting, and hurt for a reason. if it fails again atleast you KNOW you tried. if you dont take the chance you could end up regretting it. id say 99 percent of us on this board would give anything to have a 2nd chance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moniii17 Posted June 13, 2012 Share Posted June 13, 2012 I don't know how long you dated initially or what sort of relationship you had, but if you can tell she really sincerely means it, then give her a chance. Everyone makes a wrong decision and sometimes a little distance can really clear your mind and give a new fresh perspective. The fact that she's willing to do therapy seems like she's really trying and is willing to do what it takes to get to a good place of trust with you again. But if you're going to give it another go, then go in with with honesty and understanding. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
patterned Posted June 13, 2012 Share Posted June 13, 2012 Depends on a lot of things, and you. Check this out though... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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