What is the fastest way of getting her back?

[bcastanieda]

I've been trying to get back with my ex girl for 2 weeks, and this week, i've done the no contact for a couple of days now. she said before she wanted to work it out, but then that changed, she can only offer friendship. i know that she is not a strong person, and just playing the strong person mindset.

 

i just wanna know the fastest way of getting her back, to make the negative and anger things out of her head.

i wanna work it out with her, i still have the same feelings for her

is there anything, i mean anything that can soften her heart and make her feel that i've changed and i will, because all of these things she did to me taught me alot of things and taught me how to keep my guard down?

[RFB]

There is no fastest way. Most often there is no way. She's offered friendship. You don't want that. Take a stand and go NC with the realisation she may never come back and move on with your life.

[mahipahl]

The absolute quickest way is they want to come back. Anything else is a waste of your time and annoyance to them.

[seoulmate]

"i've done the no contact..."

 

Is that a new game? Never heard of it.

 

You mean,..you don't contact her for a few days in the hopes of her missing you and running back to you?

 

Simply put: No contact is not a manipulation tactic to get some to want to return to you. So you can stop that thinking asap. No contact is for you to move on with your lfie and let the person who just broke-up with you figure out their life without you. Yeah, maybe she'll miss you and want to talk down the road but you'll be focusing on you.

 

Right now, your "how can I get her back fast" is actually just a selfish, panic reaction. You want her back fast so you can be happy again. Well, she's not happy with you. So, why don't you let her figure out things on her own?