Allipie Posted June 8, 2012 Share Posted June 8, 2012 Hi guys, I was recently seeing this guy for almost a month. (yea ok not a LONG time but whatever). Anyway, this seemed fine-he put in the effort to contact me, wanted to see me etc. The last time we hung out, he was tickling me pretty hard-i said stop. Then he was kissing my neck, and his stubble was REALLY tickling me-i laughed and pointed it out. He stops, sits up, looks at me and says "you cant handle me", rolls over, smokes a cigarette and falls asleep. I wake him and tell him to take me home. I was going to take a cab but he insisted on driving me despite being tired. He drops me off, kisses me, hugs me, texts me when he gets home to say he got home. That night he had said he was cranky because he had 1 1/2 hours of sleep... Anyway....a couple days go by and I dont hear from him which is ok bc hes a firefighter and works weird hours. Four days later...still nothing. So i figure hes not interested and kinda feel like im being strung along. So, i txt him and say "hey you dont seem too interested so im just gonna move along." Maybe that wasnt the best idea but i felt it was better to verbally end it instead of just leaving it out there. My friend says he didnt respond because he disnt want to give a definite "yea sorry im not" and leave it open so he can come back at some other time....buuuut i don know. I think its pretty cut and dry. What do you guys think? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Day_Walker Posted June 8, 2012 Share Posted June 8, 2012 He doesnt have an interest in contesting your statement. It would seem to me that a statement like that is said to illicit a response and he just didnt want to respond. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guynextdoor Posted June 8, 2012 Share Posted June 8, 2012 I have a question for you... If you were going to take a cab home why did you wake him up to take you home? Why didn't you let him sleep knowing he had less than 2 hours of sleep? Whatever the case may be I can see why he was cranky. I would leave it alone and see if he will contact you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Allipie Posted June 8, 2012 Author Share Posted June 8, 2012 yea thats what i was thinking. I mean, no response = he doesnt care. Which is fine...no biggie. At the end of the day, he was much too arrogant. Lol My friend was just soooo convinced otherwise. Just want to see what others think. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Allipie Posted June 8, 2012 Author Share Posted June 8, 2012 I have a question for you... If you were going to take a cab home why did you wake him up to take you home? Why didn't you let him sleep knowing he had less than 2 hours of sleep? Whatever the case may be I can see why he was cranky. I would leave it alone and see if he will contact you. Sorry typo. Am on my phone. Woke him up saying i was GOING home and taking a cab. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greatone99 Posted June 8, 2012 Share Posted June 8, 2012 You did kill the mood by pointing out the stubble tickling thing, making it seem like you wanted him to stop, but that's no reason to not contact you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Allipie Posted June 8, 2012 Author Share Posted June 8, 2012 You did kill the mood by pointing out the stubble tickling thing, making it seem like you wanted him to stop, but that's no reason to not contact you. Maaaaybe....but i was laughing while saying it and definitely NOT pushing him away. I think saying "you cant handle me" is a little insulting though...lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikNomis Posted June 8, 2012 Share Posted June 8, 2012 I get the vibe that the better you get to know him, the more frequently things like this would happen, where he like gets sort of mad and leaves you alone. I personally think it's a good thing that you won't be seeing him anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Allipie Posted June 9, 2012 Author Share Posted June 9, 2012 I get the vibe that the better you get to know him, the more frequently things like this would happen, where he like gets sort of mad and leaves you alone. I personally think it's a good thing that you won't be seeing him anymore. Yea i know. Now that i think about it, the little signs were there. Hes from Russia and would tell me how russian men are sooo respectful of women etc...and im sure thats true for some but ive always heard that russian men are NOT like that at all. THEN he would say how he doesnt have a problem getting women, its just hard finding intelligent ones ....thats hes a challenge etc...lol so many little things. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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