Finally wanting to move on

[giraffeprint]

well my ex and i broke up for the second time. she pretty much explained that her life is very stressful now, and shes in no space to date. Also that we're both young, we dated the majority of our high school years, and she feels she wants to experience things. I guess after i finally put my emotions aside it does make sense, but i cant deny that im bothered by it. this girl and i are very compatible but ive come to the conclusion that if she has these feelings they'll never go away until she does go out there and do what she wants to do.

 

Ive done a lot more dating than her, and just life experiences in general. i guess it bothers me that she doesnt want to share these life experiences with me, but shes so detail oriented that she knows me in and out,she says she knows exactly what im going to say and do i cant fault her for that.

 

i told her to give me a month, then we can decide on being friends or just completely parting our ways but this is just very hard to deal with.

 

i mean logically it makes 100% sense. and in the mist of our dating, i learned that her emotional problems are very toxic and its something i should want to avoid. shes always on edge, and shes very needy.

 

i mean i know it will get better as time passes, and i probably will meet someone who has a lot more to offer me, but i cant help but to be attached to my first love.

 

i guess im just looking for motivational words to move forward.

[Habibi]

this girl and i are very compatible

 

if this was to be true you two would be still together.

 

yes,you will find someone else who got more to offer you, and that is a promise.