springfvr Posted February 23, 2012 Share Posted February 23, 2012 I have worked with the girl I am dating a couple of years. Have been dating a couple of months. Everything has moved rather quickly with her being the more aggressive one. The sex is the best I have ever had and I believe I am completely in love with her. However, she is not yet divorced from her husband. She wants to have a child with me but does not want to get married in the near future. In the past I would have never even thought of the idea of having a child out of wedlock but this girl is amazing. I was raised in a very traditional family and have traditional values. When I tell her that my family will freak if she gets pregnant without being married she tells me "you are a grown man" think for yourself. I know I am a grown man. Is it a little soon to be talking about having a child, even though we are really into each other and in love? We are both in our mid 30's My question is that she knows how much I am into her, do you think she is trying to manipulate me? Is she going to dump me because I am a rebound? The last thing is she is getting divorced because she cheated on her husband. I know huge red flag. I think I am letting my heart overtake my logic. Link to comment
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