LostnConfused Posted February 23, 2012 Share Posted February 23, 2012 I never received a present, card or anything from my girlfriend or Christmas on Valentine's day. I would of been happy with a piece of paper that said I love you, but I didn't receive even that. I recently discussed this with my girlfriend and she started crying because, "she felt like the worst girlfriend ever". I understand that she's busy with university, but I appreciate tokens like this because I believe I shower her with attention, and I've always been over the top with romantic gestures. When I asked her to be my girlfriend it was on a night cruise overlooking the city skyline at dusk, I never let her open doors, I always make her dinner, she spontaneously gets roses just because I love her, I've made her her favorite snacks from scratch, I usually pay for everything when we go out, when she needs anything I put her priorities first. I just feel like she isn't reciprocating.This is her first relationship, she is 24 and I am 26, and she told me she just doesn't know how to be romantic because her parents were never that way with each other. Was I being out of line when I discussed my feelings with her? She says she won't see me until she finishes making her Christmas and Valentine's presents. I think it scares me that part of me is happy that she won't see me until then so I won't feel like I'm being taken for granted. Link to comment
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