brock Posted February 23, 2012 Share Posted February 23, 2012 My girlfriend and I of seven months had a heated exchange last night. We were both drinking a few beers at B-Dubs and she decided to tell that her lesbian couple (friends) no longer like me etc. I chuckled and asked why, thinking she was kidding. She said, "They're both mad because you told Sandy to cheat on Ashley." This was supposed to have happened back in November when we were partying at a bar. First of all, I would never ever give someone that kind of advise and secondly, these two girls live and thrive on constant drama. I became upset and said, "Hmmm, I don't think so!" She said, "I know you said something!" All this was extremely weird because my girlfriend has no drama tendencies, which is why I decided to date her and give up the single life. She didn't yell, but wouldn't look at me and wouldn't say much. She was already 4/5 tall beers deep and I was about 3 deep after a long work day. These two girls were finding a reason not to like me, and it looks like they took something a may have said 4 months ago and manipulated it to convince my girlfriend of something. Which at this point blows my mind. But, I called her two lesbian friends a few names in anger and defended myself, as I should. I don't tell people to cheat. That's sooooo far from who I am. So, we had drove separately and as I drove to my place she never followed me to my place. I called her, no response. I texted her, no response. I texted her again, no response. So, the morning comes and I feel as though I owe her an apology of some kind. I sent her 2 texts apologizing for calling her friends names but that I was only defending myself. And that I never said what they are accusing me of. And that I wish she would have defended me to them and at least asked me instead of assuming I said such nonsense. I finished it with, "Everyone has an argument sometimes. Have a good day." That was at 1 o'clock this afternoon and now its past 8pm and I still have heard nothing from her, I'm feeling sad and I don't know what to do. But, I have to defend myself. But, she's so attached to these two girls that sometimes she believes what they say as gospel. She and I have only had two disagreements in two months. That's why this whole silent treatment is way out of bounds. Link to comment
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