TessaB Posted February 22, 2012 Share Posted February 22, 2012 I've seen many write about it on here. Well, it's my birthday...and I got a text from the ex. I never expected that. It's been almost four months out of a 2 year serious relationship, I haven't talked to or seen him in over two months. He has a new girlfriend (the one he met when with me). Just said happy birthday and hope I was having a good day. First I was alright with it, then had some tears, now just...whatever. Of course, I am ignoring it. He hurt me. And now he's just loving life hoping I have a great day while he lives his life. Clearly, unaware of the pain he's caused me over the last four months. I'm 100% set in not responding, but for a second thoughts crossed my mind about how I am percieved. Not repsonding...could that mean I'm bitter, not "over it," can't "handle" a dumb text? Responding....could that mean I'm fine, forgiving and everything is peachy? Then I realize, it just doesn't matter. Oh! One bright side, I had to confirm it was his number....because I had successfully forgotten it. Ha, I guess not anymore. I'll start the mind erasing process once again! Just needed to vent, as I'm going to bday dinner with friends and surely do not want to focus on this....so I wanted to get it out somewhere. Thanks ena! Link to comment
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