lykkeli Posted February 21, 2012 Share Posted February 21, 2012 I'm 22, he's 26. 6-month relationship so far. I am about to meet his close friend of 10 years tomorrow to ease my jealousy. But honestly, I don't know if I can truly trust him though I WANT to. It all started when I tried to break up with him. He immediately told me that his friend, "Alice", was gorgeous and I became angry. He then told me that he just said that to hurt me because I was breaking up with him. We eventually reconciled. In the next 3 months, I learned that he and Alice were friends since high school and he had liked her for two years then. They had also slept together a few years later on a drunken night. Nothing has happened since then. She is now married and trying to escape her abusive husband, as far as I know. My jealousy with her has become an issue. I get jealous whenever he wants to hang out with her, which is every 2-3 weeks as he says. They text about once a week. I haven't snuck into his phone, his emails, or anything. All of this information comes from me asking him questions. He made a point saying that I don't know how it feels to have a long, close friendship and that makes it hard for me to see their friendship. (I was a military brat and never really developed childhood/high school friendships). Recently, we had an argument about it and he left to her house and talked to her about it. I didn't know he did this until afterwards and I was extremely upset to the point of wanting to leave. I'm am very embarrassed about my jealousy, and I really want to get over it. But is he worth it? It really hurt he went to her, if anything, it makes me more distrustful. All three of us are hanging out tomorrow for the first time (all of us knowing that the purpose is for me to witness their friendship). I am nervous. Please help, I have no one to goto with a more rational mindset when it comes to jealousy. Link to comment
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