shamone Posted February 21, 2012 Share Posted February 21, 2012 Hey everyone, i need some advice here. me and my girlfriend have been going out 6 months now. we met through friends becuase i use to see her every weekend for a while when i was about 6 years old, we actuallt ended up being eachothers first kiss back at the time!! anyway 20 years later we met and started dating. we fell in love with eachother quickly, we would always say it to eachother. i learned mistakes from my last relationship before this one, so iv been extra good to her and i supported her when she was out of a job. she often says to me how good i am to her and that she is lucky to have me... we argue sometimes, but i always own up to it afterwards to make her happy and just forget about it. anyway, over the past 2 weeks she seemed kind of distant, forgetting to text me back and rescheduling dates, but at the same time still says she loves me and misses me. out of the blue, after a party we went to at the weekend she said she wants a break and there is too much stuff going through her head, said she doesnt know what she wants and mite consider breaking up because she is stressed. i got upset by it and wanted her to explain more. she wouldnt communicate with me about it at the time. we aranged to meet up for a chat the next day but she cancelled and said she is too tired so arranged to meet the following day (today). then she cancels again and said she needs a few days to get into her new job and doesnt want stress while she is learning it. at this point i figured to myself, she wants to break up but she is leaving me in limbo until she is happy enough with her job. selfish if thats the case? i asked her if i could just call her for a chat instead so i did, and she said to me its not working out and its best we dont see eachother anymore. i understand she is in alot of stress but she has torn my heart out. i didnt get angry with her, i wished her all the best and told her i respected her decision and told her to look after herself. i took it as well as i could even tho i was really torn inside. straight away i deleted everything to do with her off facebook (pics, relationship status etc..) and told her she needs somebody to come collect her clothes from the house as soon as possible. i am now starting to move on, do you think this is the right thing to do? i just dont understand how someone can be so in love with you suddenly have a change of heart in the space. a part of me think somebody is involved but i did not want to accuse her of that. hopefully in time she will realise just what she has lost... i believe she will if i take the right steps. any advice?? Link to comment
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