Mopeydic Posted February 21, 2012 Share Posted February 21, 2012 When is a time out a good thing and when is it a bad thing? I realise it's too general a question, but we had a fight a few weeks back, and things have not been the same since. I gave her space for a few days, and even on valentine's day i didn't push her to meet up, but sent flowers/candy which she appreciated, and then we were supposed to meet last thurs, but she got tied up at work. So basically we're on the perpetual time out which feels like crap. Am trying to avoid re-initiated the meetup because i always do it and don't think it helps the dynamic of the relationship. Really want her to reach out this time. She said she's give me a shout next week when she said she was stuck at work, and now 4 days later there is not a peep. it borderline feels like the thing is over. Obviously no one is a mindreader and i can't tell if this has more to do with the very difficult and strenous work schedule she has for this month or just a growing divide between us. Thought we could see eachother this weekend but she had made plans ages ago to go away with friends so i ended up going somewhere else also. What is clear from the last conversation is that the ball is in her court to reach out and so far, not even a little how was your weekend kinda message. i am gonna wait out this week but i don't think there is anything i can do on my side that will rectify this situation beyond accepting it's dead if i don't hear from her by the end of this week or so. I assume some of the women on this forum will agree that once she stops trying to even re-initiate contact it's pretty much a sign that things are done in her mind. Correct me if i am wrong. Link to comment
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