lezlak Posted February 21, 2012 Share Posted February 21, 2012 so I posted last week that there was a lot of distance in my relationship currently. well i found out the reason why. my boyfriends highschool girlfriend was recently broken up with and has started contacting him and sending him messages that she loves him. and his college gf was also broken up with and is sending him pictures. he says he likes talking to them because he is depressed and they know him. this really upsets me. it actually makes me sick. there a couple problems....we have already bought plane tickets and planned a trip to Germany for our friends wedding the first week of April. We also live together. So he made a promise to me that he would stop talking to them at least until we go on our trip and see if his feelings change if he is not constantly in contact with them. I am not sure that I can trust him to actually do this since he was already hiding his contact/involvement with them to begin with. I am mad and hurt but I still dont want to break up. I would like for this to actually work but I am not sure it will. He said to try but he is still being angry, mean and cold toward me. I am not sure what I should do. I feel stuck in a bad place. I am so anxious that I am not sleeping and eating. Advice please. Link to comment
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