UniqueSoul Posted February 21, 2012 Share Posted February 21, 2012 Hey everyone Would you be upset if your boyfriend/girlfriend contacted their ex to give their condolences to them because one of their parents had died? id appreciate the input thanks! Link to comment
velvette Posted February 21, 2012 Share Posted February 21, 2012 nope, death is kind of a big deal. especially parents. Link to comment
charity Posted February 21, 2012 Share Posted February 21, 2012 no. i would actually be more upset if i thought he wouldn't call her at such an immensely hard time. Link to comment
Liraele Posted February 21, 2012 Share Posted February 21, 2012 No. It would be points in their favor - it shows compassion. They don't need to go overboard, but still. I'd be more concerned if they didn't care enough to. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted February 21, 2012 Share Posted February 21, 2012 No. I would admire him for that. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted February 21, 2012 Share Posted February 21, 2012 No not at all but if he chose not to because he hadn't been in touch in many years or wasn't close with the parents that would be fine. Link to comment
gluestick Posted February 21, 2012 Share Posted February 21, 2012 Nope, not at all. But, if he's using it to get back in touch with the ex, then yea, that would be wrong. Link to comment
metrogirl Posted February 22, 2012 Share Posted February 22, 2012 I think it was a nice gesture. Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted February 22, 2012 Share Posted February 22, 2012 I would see it as common decency. Link to comment
Jd1983 Posted February 22, 2012 Share Posted February 22, 2012 No, I would not be upset. I think it's a nice courtesy. Link to comment
kaibutsu Posted February 24, 2012 Share Posted February 24, 2012 Not in the least bit. Seems like something very normal. I take it that someone found this upsetting? Why did something like that become an issue of contention? Link to comment
Stay_home Posted February 25, 2012 Share Posted February 25, 2012 I wouldn't, not the slightest. Link to comment
trixi Posted April 4, 2012 Share Posted April 4, 2012 Nope....that would be a + in my eyes Link to comment
Divine010 Posted April 4, 2012 Share Posted April 4, 2012 Even though I don't like the pitiful girl, I don't hate her. So no. Its the right thing to do. Link to comment
Wistful Posted April 4, 2012 Share Posted April 4, 2012 I'm going to be the odd one out here. It wouldn't bother or upset me, but it would be strike me as strange. My fiance's exes are from highschool and haven't been a part of his life for years. They didn't even get along. If my exes were like that, I'd feel bad and tell my partner how sad it was, but I wouldn't take strides to seek them out. Link to comment
gingerlemon Posted April 4, 2012 Share Posted April 4, 2012 No, not at all. Like other have said, I think it would be a nice, respectful gesture. Link to comment
nutbrownhare Posted April 4, 2012 Share Posted April 4, 2012 No - wouldn't upset me at all. As has been said elsewhere, I'd be a bit worried if they didn't care! Link to comment
ManOhMan Posted April 5, 2012 Share Posted April 5, 2012 Nope. As long as it was only to offer condolences and not to meet. If they meet, GET HIM! I support you! Link to comment
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