Need some advice!

[Armooo]

Last month me and my fiance of 2 and a half years broke up, he ended it because he said I talkedhim like * * * * . I had spohe badly but I apologized and it just seemed completely out of the blue. We carried on living together and we were getting on very well, like when we first got together. But he told me last week that he was texting a girl from work how he liked. She wanted to meet with him and I told him to go, he needed to make his mind up on how he felt. This didnt help, they just had a nice time but it was still up in the air. We started to argue, I was hurt and jealous obviously. Then he went out with her yesterday and they kissed, she also bought him a very expensive birthday present, bearing inmind they have been texting for a week. It then got out of control and he walked out. He says he still loves me, but it hurts him that it isnt working between us. He even admitted that he goes out with her to have a break from whats going on at home and that he knows no one will have the same connectin with him or the same amazing relationship. We have a 8 month old daughter and Im finding it hard to keep myself together.

What can I do, I love him all the world. He was my first love and first everything.

[Crazyaboutdogs]

You need to let him go. You may have said some unkind things to him but that doesn't make his actions right either. He was still living with you and pursuing another woman. You relationship was barely over. Sounds to me like he had interest in this woman long before the fight. It also sounds like he is using her. In the end, do you really want a guy like this? No matter what you did, his behaviour to you and to this other woman is not very nice.

[Armooo]

I honestly believe nothing was going on before we broke up, because we were never apart. And he never texted anyone. Ijust dont know what to do, there is still so much passion there and he knows that. Is there a chance of him coming back?

[Tranquillo]

Put your yourself and your daughter above any man.

[rainbows1]

You may have told him to go on the date so he could see how he felt, but I think if a man truly loved you he wouldn't consider going on a date with another woman. The matter of the fact is, he saw you were vulnerable after taking the blame of speaking to him badly at some point and used the fact you felt awful about it, as a way to test the waters without losing anything but possibly gaining something with the other woman - he believed and you believed that you owed him that due to have spoken bad words. He is telling you that he won't have a special connection with this other woman like he has with you but he is still persuing her, instead of trying to rekindle your relationship. The positive thing is you have a beautiful daughter and she will be the most important thing in your life as she grows older, take her as the blessing from this relationship and walk away, try and find new living arrangements until you can sort things out with the house you are sharing with him and find someone who is strong enough to take on harder times in the relationship without walking out on you for an easy option.

[Armooo]

Do any of you think it could do with our age? Im 18 and hes 19 tomorrow, ano its sounds mad because were so young but we both thought that we were the one, and there isnt one thing he doesnt know about me and the same for him.

[HeartGoesOn]

He says he still loves me, but it hurts him that it isnt working between us. He even admitted that he goes out with her to have a break from whats going on at home and that he knows no one will have the same connectin with him or the same amazing relationship.

 

So, his idea of a break is when the going gets rough, the rough go out and hunt for a better deal.