psycho magnet Posted February 19, 2012 Share Posted February 19, 2012 So broke up with my last serious ex several months ago (and wrote all about it on this site). Long story short: last contact we had was about 3 months ago. She wanted to hang out and be friends. I said no because 1) she was dating someone who she ended our relationship for and that was painful for me and 2) I was just starting to date someone. Now three months later she requested to be friends again on facebook, a few days ago. I did not friend her because I'm not interested in rehashing the past and, though I'm largely over her, hanging out with her would surely bring some of the pain back to the surface. Now she's friended one of my friends she met once when we were together and she's made little sarcastic comments on some of my posts on other mutual friends' pages. She's obviously trying to get my attention, but I really don't want to give it to her, especially since this is a rather childish way to go about getting it. So my dilemma is this. For my own personal growth, it would be best if I continued to ignore her. Any contact I have with her will likely open up a line of communication I do not want to open at this time. Plus, I was very clear in our last conversation that I wanted NC and did not want to be friends. On the other hand, I don't hate her and I do feel a little bad completely ignoring her. Maybe I should just be honest with her and type her a brief message that says something like, "Hey I'm sorry but I am not interested in being friends. I hope you're doing well." But then that in itself might start a conversation I don't want to have... Ahh! So you see my dilemma... Link to comment
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