StarGazer68 Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 Are there guys out there who would go far for sex? Like so far as to ask for exclusivity, make the relationship official/publicized on the net for all to see, and put in more than 5 dates with no sex? Are there guys out there who will put in all that kind of work for some booty? Also, are there guys out there who will wait months for sex until the girlfriend feels ready? The way my guy is acting is hard for me to figure out and has me wondering if it's all genuine because I'm not used to it. The guy I'm dating showers me with compliments left and right, sobbed in front of me while we watched a movie (which I couldn't help thinking was some kind of act or I'm just being too skeptical ), talked to me about plans for the future like going back home with him at the end of the year and other future plans, told me I could bring some of my things to his place to stay over (told me this even before I ever came to his place which freaked me out, though I didn't really say anything, he realized on his own and apologized), told me he is falling for me when we were getting hot and heavy and I had to move his hand away from places on my body, held me all night even though we didn't have sex...I'm sure there are more things I could come up with but those are some major things that I'm not used to that have me pondering. His actions and words in person would perhaps make more sense if he was also texting and calling me a good amount when we are apart, but he isn't. The first two weeks after we met, he texted me almost every hour trying to get to know me and trying to make plans to get together. Now, he seems to be pulling back with the texts. I have taken some initiative to text him things now to let him know I'm interested and want to talk to him, but I get responses hours later. And I know he could have responded because I know what days he works and he is good at getting back quickly to texts like he was when we first met. I guess I sound crazy or paranoid here but it's making me wonder if he is slowly pulling back after each time we get together because he realizes he isn't getting sex and it seems tougher to get it from me. He just doesn't text or call me much after we have an amazing time, it's like he kinda gets distant. It's really confusing me. I don't understand this coming from a guy who is claiming he is head over heels crazy about me, planning a future with me after knowing each other 4 weeks and going on 7 dates...yet doesn't text me much....I'm just confused. I'm worried I'm really just some sort of fun challenge and conquest to him. Anyone can shed some light? EDIT: I think I am showing signs of interest. I told him I miss him and want to kiss him many times. I have also texted him good night and good morning and sometimes not received a response and then even an explanation to why I didn't get a response. Link to comment
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