threestars Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 I've met people through the internet previously but not really with the intent of dating/relationship. I'm 26 and live in a new area and don't really know anyone so I figured I'd give it a try. So me and this girl chatted for a couple days and then ended up making plans to get a drink after work last Friday. We seemed to hit it off pretty well had dinner which I paid for and she asked if I wanted to continue the night elsewhere. We went to a few bars and then hung-out at her place til around 1am. Lots of eye contact and no awkward moments, it was a good time and she's nice and cute. The night ended with a hug and we said we'd like to see each other again. We've talked daily since the first date and a couple days later made new plans. We decided to hangout and watch a movie at her place and then went out to eat dinner. On valentines day she messaged me and said happy v-day and all that, not something girls that are strictly friends generally bother with. The day before our 2nd date she invited me over that evening as she was making dinner for her family that was in town(I declined as I already had plans and was slightly surprised about the invite)The first date she made comments that she doesn't normally like to have people over at her place, so I felt like being there for the 2nd time was a pretty positive sign. After dinner we went out and had a drink and listened to a band. It was a good time and we seem to enjoy each others company. While out at the bar she jokingly made a comment about being a good wingman, which I wasn't really sure how to take that. She had work early today and the previous night mentioned she goes to bed around 11 each night...but we stayed up til around 1:30. When we got back to her place she sat on the opposite couch unlike earlier when we watched the movie. Once we got back and she had me back up around 1 I thought we would end up making out at least for the first time. But we ended up watching some TV for a bit and then I left. Once again the night ended in a hug. I wasn't expecting to go to bed with her after date 2 or anything, but the wingman comment and referring to me as a friend a few times really have me questioning whether or not I've been friend zoned despite the fact that she continues to want to go on "1-on-1 dates". I would still like to hangout with her either way but I generally act differently around people I'm interested in romantically and people that I'm just wanting to be friends with.. Any ideas or thoughts as to how I can approach this or have experience with the confusion of meeting someone through online dating and determining friend or more? Thanks in advance Link to comment
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