hotcocoa954 Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 if a man texts that he's "just saying hi and that he was thinking about you and hopes you are having a great day".....but he's not single? Link to comment
annie24 Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 Means that he's not a great guy and that his current wife or gf should dump him! Link to comment
duke nukem Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 Means that he's not a great guy and that his current wife or gf should dump him! Yeah I'd agree with this. I never texted other girls when I was in a relationship. Just ain't right. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 After reading your previous thread, I have to agree with Annie. You're skating on thin ice..be careful. Link to comment
Tanzi Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 That he's bored maybe and wants to spice up his life a little. If he's not single its not even worth going there. Whatever he doesn't sound like a great catch. Link to comment
Generation Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 Something you just don't text to another woman if you're a taken man. Even if his intentions are pure, that's just wrong. Link to comment
ChicoShadow Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 If you two are really good friends, I think it's harmless. I have a male friend who would send me a message like that, whether he was in a relationship or not. I don't see anything wrong with his message. Link to comment
leseine7 Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 if a man texts that he's "just saying hi and that he was thinking about you and hopes you are having a great day".....but he's not single? Well, okay, is he someone you've been friends with? I have to admit, I am in a relationship of 3 years and would by no means ever cheat or hit on anyone, but I definitely have friends who are male to whom I've texted something along those lines. I also am sure my boyfriend has texted female friends something along those lines just to catch up. I believe that's fine and healthy and can genuinely just be with intent of saying hello and making sure we haven't lost our friendships to our relationship... However, if he's someone you don't really know or only met once, and how (bar, party, etc), that could be a little weird. Either way, I wouldn't necessarily read him as a shady guy right off the bat. Link to comment
annie24 Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 If you two are really good friends, I think it's harmless. I have a male friend who would send me a message like that, whether he was in a relationship or not. I don't see anything wrong with his message. I have male friends who would message me like that, but then again, we have long established friendships, and they are more like girlfriends to me. I don't know the poster's history, that sure has a lot to do with it. Link to comment
Thorshammer Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 Depends the relation you have with this man. Considering that you are stumped to the message i assume it seems like a feeler message- he waits for you to feed on it, then he will push the boundaries. My bestfriend was, is, and still a female, and i dont send her messages telling her that I am thinking about her (but then again thats just me). Link to comment
hotcocoa954 Posted February 17, 2012 Author Share Posted February 17, 2012 If you two are really good friends, I think it's harmless. I have a male friend who would send me a message like that, whether he was in a relationship or not. I don't see anything wrong with his message. Well, I do have to admit we have kissed a few times, but that was it.... Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 Without knowing more of the history of his interaction with you then I cannot say for sure what the statement means. I have friends who say the same thing with girls they are just friends with. Link to comment
Tanzi Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 I was going to say it that it depended on who the guy was, whether he was a friend or not but I gathered by the fact the OP is analysing his message that he is someone she likes .... Well, I do have to admit we have kissed a few times, but that was it.... And keep it that way! He has a gf so he is stringing you along. Do you really want to get with a guy that could potentially string you along too? Leave things alone, he has a gf. Link to comment
RadicalDreamer Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 My bestfriend was, is, and still a female, and i dont send her messages telling her that I am thinking about her (but then again thats just me). I second this. It's one thing to say "just wanted to say hi" but when he adds that he's "thinking of you"...well, there's a certain implication there, one that he is no doubt well aware of. Especially if you're not best-of-buds, we-go-way-back kind of friends The ultimate test for whether behavior between men and women who are not in relationships goes like this: "Would they say this to a friend in whom they had no ulterior interests?" For example, would he say that to one of his guy friends? I don't think I'd ever tell a guy friend I was "thinking of him" unless maybe they were suicidal or I had reason to be concerned for their welfare. But still. Link to comment
pl3asehelp Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 Well, I do have to admit we have kissed a few times, but that was it.... Ok, well, with this new information, I think it means he's hoping you'll have sex with him. Link to comment
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