nrb Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 back to square 1...I am such an idiot...NC is for a reason someone wrote here some time ago...the reason is for US not them...not to let them feed upon our sadness... Dear Lord, please help me keep my dignity and self/respect...it is all I am left... Link to comment
marconi68 Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 Most of us have done that, either in a weak moment, loneliness, a knock back in life, wanting closure, or just plain curiosity. Our hearts seem to over-rule our logically minds. I don't know why we expect a certain answer, don't matter how many times we break NC, it's as if we expect them to turn around and say 'Ha ha I was only kidding with ya, I love you so much, your're the best thing since...da-de-da..' That rarely happens, except in the movies. Don't beat yourself up, we're only human. Get back on NC saddle. I was rubbish with the NC thing, now i'm good. Like you said, it's for US. Wish you well. Link to comment
nrb Posted February 17, 2012 Author Share Posted February 17, 2012 Most of us have done that, either in a weak moment, loneliness, a knock back in life, wanting closure, or just plain curiosity. Our hearts seem to over-rule our logically minds. I don't know why we expect a certain answer, don't matter how many times we break NC, it's as if we expect them to turn around and say 'Ha ha I was only kidding with ya, I love you so much, your're the best thing since...da-de-da..' That rarely happens, except in the movies. Don't beat yourself up, we're only human. Get back on NC saddle. I was rubbish with the NC thing, now i'm good. Like you said, it's for US. Wish you well. THANK YOU FOR YOUR COMFORTING WORDS...must not forget again, that, we are only humans as you said... Link to comment
remster Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 The only good thing is you probably won't break it again now. When you feel weak come back and read your own words to stop you next time. Good luck. Link to comment
The Man Who Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 If people never learned from their mistakes then none of us would learn a thing in our lifetime. Chalk it down to experience nrb, as someone has said, you'll not make the same mistake again after knowing that breaking it gave you what you least wanted. Link to comment
Julia Durst Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 Don't worry nrb We all let it slip through once in a while. What is important is that you learn from your mistakes and don't let it happen again. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 don't beat yourself up nrb ... we all slip back ...your not the first , you wont be the last and together we learn . Link to comment
dumPI Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 Don't be mad at yourself ... I haven't broken it since break up (4 months ago) and can't say it's easy. There is no easy road here. NC is hard, no NC is harder. Link to comment
FreeFallFeelin Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 Sometimes I think this whole board should be name 'The NC Support Network'. It seems to be the number one challenge in healing ...staying completely away from the ex. So don't feel too bad NRB. You're totally normal! Plus, you posting your regret for breaking NC has probably helped a few readers stick with it, for at least one more day! Link to comment
nrb Posted February 18, 2012 Author Share Posted February 18, 2012 Thank you all for your support! Your kind words are appreciated... Link to comment
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