adrian83 Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 Ok so i met this girl approx a month ago through mutual friends. We've been out with mutual friends clubbing etc etc. So i added her on fb and we've been talking ever since online on chats. Leaving each other msgs daily. At first she started out kinda cold, as in only answering single words etc etc. But shes becoming more and more chatty. I sent her a powerpoint thing for valentines day and she replied with "thats soooo sweet, thank you!!" as she told me she didnt have a date. Well anyway fast forward a month of chatting, i asked her why doesnt she have a date for valentines. She replies with "cos the guy i like didnt ask". So i was "oh".. heart sank but at the same time i tried to joke around with her about it. I said why dont u ask him instead?. Ok heres the thing i need to know.. she says "she met this guy a month ago through mutual friends". And i asked, "oh so have you guys been on a date"? she said no but only in group outings. Then i realised it sounded really similar to me. I also met her a month ago out clubbing with mutual friends. But then, she started telling me that she tried to text him twice etc etc (she doesnt have my number) but he seemed cold and distant. I guess the question im asking is that will women tend to tell half truth stories? ie. give hints but dont want to make it sound too obvious? The thing is, shes quite attractive and has no problems getting a date if she wants to. My friends tell me that she's sorta like "daddys little princesS" and has that kind of attitude. The point is she has initiated talk with me before of at least twice. advise? Link to comment
Ilona Crow Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 You should just ask her out. It's possible that she meant you, but then when you didn't respond by asking her out, she added wrong details to save face and spare herself some embarrassment. Regardless, even if she didn't mean you, she might still say yes if you asked her out. You never know until you try, and the worst thing she can do is say no, right? Link to comment
adrian83 Posted February 17, 2012 Author Share Posted February 17, 2012 You should just ask her out. It's possible that she meant you, but then when you didn't respond by asking her out, she added wrong details to save face and spare herself some embarrassment. Regardless, even if she didn't mean you, she might still say yes if you asked her out. You never know until you try, and the worst thing she can do is say no, right? ok i did ask her out. A few times actually. First was because she was sick and i know this for a fact. we actually have a deal to come out this weekend together for clubbing i duno if shes still keen, it was kinda her idea in fact. Link to comment
Ilona Crow Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 ok i did ask her out. A few times actually. First was because she was sick and i know this for a fact. we actually have a deal to come out this weekend together for clubbing i duno if shes still keen, it was kinda her idea in fact. Then it sounds to me like she definitely likes you. Good luck with your clubbing this weekend! Link to comment
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