rustynails Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 For the last couple weeks, I have been in sleepless turmoil about whether my girlfriend has been loosing interest in our relationship. We have been together for almost three years and have lived together for about 1 1/2 of those years. I uprooted and moved to a new city to be with her, found a new job and have committed to her in so many other ways. However, over the last few weeks I have been noticing a shift in behavior that made me worry and wonder if she was planning to break up with me. I have lost countless hours of sleep over trying to identify words phrases and any other gestures to confirm this fact. I just realized that I have been unhappy with the relationship for several months, and I believe my, unknown to me, negative attitude has unconsciously rubbed off on her and is making her confused. I love her with all my heart, but as hard as I try, I cannot imagine a future with her in it. I don't want to hurt her. I don't want to hurt me. But I cannot see any thing that makes me want to stay. My emotions are running wild right now, and I'm not sure what I am looking for by writing this. I think I just need to put it out there, and hopefully have some people talk back to offer any experience or advice on How, What, When, IF, I should do anything. I don't want to break up. I don't want to loose what we have... had. I just don't know what to do. Do I fake it for a while and see if it gets better? Or do I just cut and run? How do I do this without ruining her life? Sorry, now I'm rambling. Thanks for reading Link to comment
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