BeatrixKiddo Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 Ever since my ex boyfriend broke up with me a year and a half ago, I'm interested in a guy. Like REALLY interested. However, at this point in my life I don't feel very confident in my ability to flirt or show that I'm attracted to someone. I feel like I have naturally closed off body language, and that might make me unapproachable. (Like crossing my arms, not smiling as much). I worry I will either come off on either extreme of the spectrum - as bored or uninterested, or might go over the top and be too forward, seeming a little TOO interested - how do I find a good balance? An important thing: this guy is a teacher assistant for a lab; he's not a professor, but is or was a student, and I'm guessing about two to three years younger than me. So, the fact that he's a TA makes me a little unsure how to approach this. I've chit chatted with him a couple of times after class about classwork (unfortunately, not alone). I made a lot of eye contact with him during the last lecture (but this may not mean anything due to the context). And I've made eye contact while we talked face to face, with me breaking it every so often. I didn't smile a lot, though, I was having a bad morning. Link to comment
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