jonessoda Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 Both of us are 24 and we've been together for about 3 years now. We see each other very often (5-6 times a week), but are both busy with studies, therefore even when we see each other, we are both studying and doing work. The other part of it is that she is Christian and I'm a atheist. I've bugged her about sex many times, but she won't and I have come to respect that, however I do mention it (according to her quite often). So since we aren't able to go all the way, when it's usually just us, my hands are "busy". Such as when I see her and we hug, I would put my hands in her pants and touch her bum. Or if we were sitting on the couch watching a movie, I would put my hand in her shirt and sort of touch her skin and such... Anyways, today I mentioned sex again (well to be fair, she showed me pictures of valentines day pic of people on fb and I'd make stupid comments like "atleast he got laid at the end of the night for spending that much money -- lucky bastard, not like me...") and she got really annoyed. She even said she didn't like me touching her all the time. I'm not sure what to do... But for the rest of the night, I've kept my hands off of her and am bitter about this... I really do love this girl, but i do feel that these things do make us closer. Am I too shallow? I'm not quite sure what to do... Should I just give in to her? If it were up to me, I would love to do more than hold hands and kiss... Any advice? Thanks. Link to comment
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