yourfaceinmanila Posted February 15, 2012 Share Posted February 15, 2012 Brief history: ex and I went out for a year, it was very passionate but compltely unstable. She was mentally ill, manipulative and abusive. I didn't see it for what it was until the very end when we broke up. Went NC straight away (4 months ago) and apart from her cornering me outside a pub and at my own house back in November, it has stayed that way. I haven't seen her in the flesh at parties or social events for 9 weeks now. We work at the same company but in different departments on different floors that never crossover. I have known for a while that there were problems in her department that meant it might be closed down; that announcement came today. I don't know whether she will be made redundant or moved into another department - but I do have some sort of power over the decision. My housemate is high ranking at the company and able to say "I want that person" or "that person is good at X" and people will listen. On one hand, if she's fired she'll likely move away and I won't have to worry about seeing her ever again. On the other hand, I don't want her to be unhappy. She likes her job. I could talk to my housemate and my ex will stay. But I also have this weird fantasy scenario in my head, where it's made clear that she still has job because of ME. Kind of a power trip. It's confusing. I guess my question is: do I just leave this to play out? Or do I extend my influence and do a good deed, ensure she keeps her job, even though it might come back to bite me? Link to comment
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