dumPI Posted February 15, 2012 Share Posted February 15, 2012 are many people (usually older people: parents/relatives) surprised when you announce that you are NC with your ex? I had some people, like my mother, telling me that to her being NC made her feel like I was the dumper instead of the dumpee as I was shutting the door completely. And that maybe I should've tried to be friends. I don't have any doubts regarding NC. For me it's the natural way as I lose all trust & confidence in someone who once said I love you's, and now they mean so little that she can dump me. What do you think? Also what do you think of this "role reversal"? Because at least two different people told me this: "you seemed to have the upper hand by refusing being friends & going NC". Link to comment
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