nastrow Posted February 15, 2012 Share Posted February 15, 2012 So I have a problem talking to this girl. Whenever I see her walking through campus I want to talk to her, but as soon as I see her I freak out. It's annoying because I only get super nervous when I think I'm going to have the chance to talk to her. The worst when I see we are going to walk past each other. As soon as I see her walking towards me, I basically panic. It's crazy. It's like I recognize her, and my brain just jumps ship. I'm know I'm somewhat socially anxious, but I can still reasonably talk to attractive girls and girls I know. What's annoying is I really want to talk to this girl (in real life, I hate facebook chatting/texting people I don't know well) but when I get this nervous I don't want to even say "hi" because I'll sound like an idiot. I mean it's basically like a 15 second panic attack, except probably not nearly as bad. Still, I've never been this nervous before. I've talked to her before and usually say hello when I see her, but the nerves just seem to be getting worse. I know this will get better if I talk to her more, but right now I just freak out if we cross paths. I actually feel less nervous if she just suprises me, because I don't have time to freak out. How do I stay relaxed? Thanks in advance. Link to comment
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