Speed up or slow down...

[Koobam man]

I am in a relationship with a girl right now, and I really like her. But I am her first boyfriend, and she is a bit of a good girl, so to speak. Right now things are kinda slow. I'm not getting into details but lets just say I would like to be able to put my arm around her without her feeling uncomfortable. But I don't want to go too fast because I don't want to scare her or make her feel uncomfortable. What should I do? I am 16 btw not an adult.

[dazednconfuse]

when i was 16, i had my first boyfriend, i barely let him hold my hand or hug me and would never let him kiss me. he was way to pushy and demanding of things to move forward so i dumped him. its a trust thing, you have to earn it if you want things to move forward.. my next boyfriend was patient and considerate, 3 years later we are still going out =D

 

If you like this girl, be patient, let her be ready to take things to the next level because if you become too pushy you will loose her..