TFB Posted February 15, 2012 Share Posted February 15, 2012 Ok, to start off, I am a teenager so disregard anything that seems rather silly. Here we go...I broke it off with a girl in which I unfortunately dated for a year and nine months. I was ready to move on due to her inability to be faithful but was scared of being alone after being in a relationship for so long. About a month went by, and a girl who I've always seen myself dating (I guess you could say I had a crush on her) and I started talking. I eventually found out the feelings were mutual between me and the new girl. We had felt like this for over a year and had no idea about one another's feelings. After about three weeks of "talking," I decided it was time to ask her out. I was not going to date her without being certain that I was over the unfaithful one. I don't mean to brag, but I would definitely say this new girl got treated like royalty over the next month. We had been dating for a little over a month when she decided to tell me she loved me. I knew that was wayyyyyyyyy too early to be saying that and I wasn't quite ready myself...She acted as if that was okay with her so I thought she understood. After four days of miraculous depressed moods from her, she broke up with me by telling me that I was not yet over the other girl that I was already prepared to break up with in the first place because it had only been a month before we started dating. I have not brought her name up unless we were joking about her and that has not occurred recently. Does she feel like this because I never told her I loved her back? Should I have just went with it for the sake of her happiness? Link to comment
stickman Posted February 15, 2012 Share Posted February 15, 2012 Trust is earned by deeds done. Link to comment
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