johnLA Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 About 3 weeks ago my ex and I had a somewhat mutual breakup because the timing wasn't right for her (except that I asked for her back a day later and she denied me). We have tried to remain friends and some days are fine, other days she flirts with me and bumps me as we are walking, and other days she acts as if I am non existent (we see each other 5 times a week due to college). I tried to go NC (except saying hi in class) a week ago because it was too confusing for me. She kept texting me a couple times a day though and I always responded nicely. Last Friday I FINALLY felt like life was good without her. Then last night as I was texting her about school she told me she missed me. I didn't know how to respond so I just said we will always be friends. Now I am confused again. She knows that I wanted us to work, so I keep asking myself does she want me back but is afraid to ask or is she just torturing me? I even heard she gave a guy her number at the bar last Friday night (which bugged me) though never responded when he texted her. What do I do? She is giving me hope that we can be together which just sets me back to square 1 in the healing process. Link to comment
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