JA0371 Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 Hi all. I have found that being on here helps a lot but in a way keeps me stuck in my head. Anyone else feel this way? Anyway, trying to stay NC with the ex, unless he contacts me first..and even then, only if it's worth responding to. Going to try to make it 21 days for now..and go from there. I hate to say Nc FOREVER!!! That's unrealistic and much harder to imagine. For now though I can manage this. Anyway, I want to take a break from all this for now, but wishing everyone out there much success with NC. It is so very hard I know. I will like to post back on this thread in. Few weeks with hopefully a positive update. Best of luck to you all and feel welcome to post on here too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pippy longstocking Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 good luck to you JA ...stay strong and I wish you peace and happiness and look forward to seeing your story when you return x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluezilla Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 Good luck to ya! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CindyTime Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 Hi all. I have found that being on here helps a lot but in a way keeps me stuck in my head. Anyone else feel this way? Yes, I know exactly what you mean. I've been thinking about that a lot over the past few days. I even stopped updating my thread as much. I mostly stick to a support thread over in Getting Back Together, since I've made friends there. Sometimes it's good to get off of here and get back to LIFE. The board will be here when you get back. Good luck with the NC! You can do it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pippy longstocking Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 I pick and choose my threads I must admit ... I go straight to the getting back together thread ..I venture out when I feel ok to read such sorrow and negativity. I sometimes have a quick look to see if anyone is really desperate for a friendly face so to speak ..and has no replies , and then I can easily go back to just reading what what I choose and not commenting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pippy longstocking Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 I pick and choose my threads I must admit ... I go straight to the getting back together thread ..I venture out when I feel ok to read such sorrow and negativity. I sometimes have a quick look to see if anyone is really desperate for a friendly face so to speak ..and has no replies , and then I can easily go back to just reading what what I choose and not commenting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GreenCupcake Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 Hi all. I have found that being on here helps a lot but in a way keeps me stuck in my head. Anyone else feel this way? Judging from how I feel right now, I would probably have to say yes. Good luck to you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JA0371 Posted February 14, 2012 Author Share Posted February 14, 2012 Before I go..although I want to make 21 dayS my short term goal for now..mY long term goal is till July 4th..lwhen I can truly celebrate my ' independence day'....best wishes tO all in the next few weeks.. You can do it and so can I!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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