tomato Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 After 5 weeks NC then her breaking it and just starting chit chat with me. To meeting up and having loads of fun twice.......then another 4 weeks of not talking.........Now I finally came clean.... I told her I knew she had been flirting with her "friend" and that she broke up with me and had sex with the little boy (just out of school and she is 22 - so he really is still a boy in comparison - I had to lol and say thats sick) just a short while after (depending on when we broke up its anywhere from 3 days to 6 weeks after we "broke up"). I told her all of this and she said it was fine! She denies starting flirting with him while we were still together and says the sex was just natural part of "getting over someone"!!!!! Is it just me that finds this the most despicable way possible of "getting over someone" - what ! You don't get over people you love! You hold onto them even if they ignore you for a year right? Is this just me being romantic and old fashioned and should I change to see relationships as throwaway items that you scrub out by children? Is that what is the done thing? Am I the only idiot here that finds that disgusting and just WRONG? I still love her - I couldn't ever do that to her - I even broke up with her once and when it was me doing the dumping I would never have done that. I take it HARDCORE NC is the only thing to do here right? Link to comment
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