wsim Posted February 13, 2012 Share Posted February 13, 2012 There is something wrong going on here... I had a date with a girl that I met on an online dating site last night and kept it relatively light, good conversation flowed and she seemed happy to talk about a wide variety of topics (i.e. - school, family, traveling, sports, tv/movies and general interests). However, at the end when I suggested another date next weekend, she bluntly said that she has a few more dates planned with other guys and will get back to me. We did hug at the end and parted ways. I did mentioned that I had a good time and all of that stuff. My interpretation of this is a kind and polite way of her saying thanks, but not interested. I'm obviously not doing something right here, as every first date that I've been on never progressed to another date with the exception of one girl who threw herself onto me (For the record, I wasn't really into her and after a month of dating, we mutually agreed to break it off). I have always presented a true picture of myself, personality and not trying to pretend to be another person. Being myself isn't good enough? I'm starting to second guess and realize that I am missing certain qualities to attract a girl. Perhaps I am not interesting or outgoing enough. Unfortunately, none of my friends have sat in or monitored any of these "dates", so of course they can't see first-hand what the problem is. It is frustrating that I can't pinpoint why this is continuing to go on and I hate the fact that I can only keep on losing at dating. At this point, I just feel like throwing in the towel and giving up on this. I don't have "it". Link to comment
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