bananashake Posted February 11, 2012 Share Posted February 11, 2012 Instead of telling me that it was over one time, he just cut off the contact. he ignored me and left me wondering * * * . for 4 weeks. i had no idea what happened for 4 weeks. And his pattern with women seems to be this: he rarely return their calls, texts when he isn't interested anymore....he lets them become frustrated so they dump him. And then he cries "poor me" when he reflects on how mean they were during the BU. I used to tell him how unhappy I was over his lack of communication, lack of time together, etc. He said "I'm not responsible for your happiness or emotions. Only u are." Why did I stay? This comment came after he became a stronger man. He was down and out when we met - recently divorced and depressed. I was nothing but an emotional support to him while he went throgh everything. I was a good shoulder for him to lean on, a good ear when he needed to talk. And now that he feels better, I get the ax. Link to comment
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