Momma1390 Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 So a few days back I posted the following: He broke off his engagement to someone else to be with me. So we met years ago in HS. I always liked him. We were friends. But just friends nothing more. Eventually, I moved away. Several months into my move he came to visit me. We spent the week together. Still just as friends. He left and we kept in touch over the last few years less and less. I was aware he was dating a girl for a few years and finally last year they became engaged. In December I received a message from him. So I messaged him back. The next thing I new we were conversing and he asked if I could meet up with him. I new he was engaged and I said I didn't think that was appropriate under the circumstances. A few days passed and he persisted. So eventually I gave in and we arranged to meet. At first it felt like before, just two friends enjoying a friendship. We met up that morning which turned into the afternoon and then the evening. Still just friends. We parted and within a short time he started calling me and asked could he come back to get me. We sat and talked and talked and he said he had always loved me. That he would always catch himself thinking of me. Well one thing led to another and we ended up spending the night together. Definitely the best night of my life. We spent most of the next day together. When I left him I knew he was going back to his fiance or so I thought. Instead a day passed and he called me and said he had broken off his engagement because he knew something wasn't right with his relationship with his fiance. He said he wanted to be with me. Well here we are a month later and he is already talking about our future together. I am so very happy. Is he in love with me or infatuated? __________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Well I've given your replies a lot of thought. He lives out of state and he texts and calls me everyday. The other day sent me the most beautiful red long stem roses. Our phone calls turn into hours and hours. He has asked that I come visit him for a week. I have decided to go to him. Unless I spend time with him I will never know if this can work. I know I have always felt something for him. I didn't act on my feeling because I didn't want to ruin a great friendship. It feels like love. It feels real. When he got engaged I broke down and cried. I didn't know until that moment how much I wanted to be with him. He has said to me that he was pressured by his x to get engaged. He new it didn't feel right. He even told his mother he wasn't sure getting engaged was right for him. His mother asked him if he had told me he was getting engaged. He said no. He said to his mom she has moved on and at the time I was seeing someone else. He thought getting engaged would force him to move on with his life with his x and forget about me. Four months went by and he just kept thinking about me and finally tried messaging me. Well he says the smartest thing he has ever done is left her. That he never felt for her what he feels for me. He wants to be with me and always has. He says now that he has me he is never letting me go. We are not kids. I have had my share of relationships. None of which I felt this way. He is willing to take things slow. This feels right. Do you think I am making the right decision? Reply Reply With Quote Link to comment
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