ann1e Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 My ex boyfriend of over a year and I broke up back in October. Alot of drama happened between then and now. He started dating my best friend but we still hooked up and just a whole bunch of other stuff. Over the past month, we haven't hooked up at all and have just been friends with each other. I finally seemed to be getting over him and living my life again. Then we were texting last night, he admitted he feels deep down in his heart that he made a mistake by breaking up with me and wakes up some mornings thinking "I don't have her anymore..." and that he thinks he's made a big mistake. He went on to say that it hurts him to know that I'am over him but I know I'm not completely... He is just really confusing me! I was just starting to get over him and then he tells me this. Please help Link to comment
LAW724 Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 Did he hint at wanting to get back with you or just that he regrets his decision? I think seeing the difference in that would make things easier for you in terms of decision making if youd be willing to reconciliate or not. Link to comment
ann1e Posted February 10, 2012 Author Share Posted February 10, 2012 Did he hint at wanting to get back with you or just that he regrets his decision? I think seeing the difference in that would make things easier for you in terms of decision making if youd be willing to reconciliate or not. That's exactly what I'm trying to figure out. We are getting coffee on Saturday, I think I'm going to ask him that then. Because he does have a new girlfriend now.. Link to comment
camus154 Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 Personally I wouldn't give an ex who then hooked up with my best friend the time of day, but that's just me. Link to comment
annie24 Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 Personally I wouldn't give an ex who then hooked up with my best friend the time of day, but that's just me. Seriously! Link to comment
BrianH46 Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 Is he still dating your friend? Link to comment
ann1e Posted February 10, 2012 Author Share Posted February 10, 2012 Is he still dating your friend? yes, he is. Link to comment
BrianH46 Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 yes, he is. Ok, I'll be honest with you then. Actions speak much louder than words. Here are his actions he broke up with you for your friend, he hooks up with you despite going out with your friend, and to finish it off when he notices that you are pulling away he sends you some bs messages to make sure you stay on his hook. His actions point to him being a pretty horrible guy. You have absolutely no room for confusion right now. He does not love you nor does he love the girl he is with, he is trying to have the proverbial cake and eat it as well. For your emotional well being tell him off and go NC. Link to comment
ann1e Posted February 10, 2012 Author Share Posted February 10, 2012 Ok, I'll be honest with you then. Actions speak much louder than words. Here are his actions he broke up with you for your friend, he hooks up with you despite going out with your friend, and to finish it off when he notices that you are pulling away he sends you some bs messages to make sure you stay on his hook. His actions point to him being a pretty horrible guy. You have absolutely no room for confusion right now. He does not love you nor does he love the girl he is with, he is trying to have the proverbial cake and eat it as well. For your emotional well being tell him off and go NC. Thank you for your input I'm honestly tired of his BS Link to comment
SpottiOtti Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 Why oh why oh why would you want to go anywhere near this attention-seeking, drama-riddled, selfish, manwhore???????? Please, please, please do yourself a favor and ignore him. Brian is right; his messages are bs. Link to comment
macadamia Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 All this guy is after is a big fat ego stroke. He's obviously incapable of caring about anyone other than himself. Why even bother texting him and staying in contact and feeding that huge sucking black hole of an ego of his? If I were you I'd forward all his messages to his girlfriend and be done with him. The problem with these types of rats is they go around making everyone else feel like crap but they never get exposed for the scum suckers that they are. Link to comment
lezlak Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 i agree with that completely. thats gotta have caused problems with your friend too. Link to comment
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