vix8 Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 I'm 420 friendly yes... i smoke it like twice a month to chillout, but my boyfriend smokes like 4 times a week.. probably more than that, in which I'm not aware of. He's obsessed with drugs and knows everything about them, but he only does hard drugs once in a while like three times a year since we've been dating, but used to do a ton of shrooms and a bit of m and has tried other things. He has insomnia and uses pot to sleep which I'm alright with, not like pot is unhealthy really, but all of his friends are stoners and some are drunks too. they're nice people for the most part, but it bothers me because every time he hangs out with his friends they're activity is smoking pot. I want to say I'm okay with him smoking pot, but I'm actually not. I tell him he can do what he wants, but when i find out he's smoking pot on a school night i get upset about it. He used to say he picks me over pot (I never asked him to choose), yet he still picks pot. I don't get it, like I never asked him to choose one or the other, so why would he even say that to me? It's like he was trying to get my hopes up about something he knew he wouldn't fall through with. I'm not okay with him smoking it as much as he does mainly because he acts like a slow idiot, gets extremely lazy, ignores me and thinks it's okay to blame it on the pot, then when we get into an argument about it he just laughs and i stop talking to him and he doesn't even try to talk to me. It's like he doesn't care. But he says he does. He also got in trouble with the law... which slowed him down in life, but I must say he is got back on his feet just fine, but it seems like now that he has all this freedom again, he's just going to get right back into it. I don't want to leave him, everything else about us being together is pretty much perfect. I love him and he loves me, but sometimes, (I never admitted this) I think in my head that I don't want to love him anymore because he is being such an ass. And then until we make up, I feel as though I don't love him... I change my attitude to his that I don't care anymore. How do I fix this without leaving him? Link to comment
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