princess5 Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 Hey everyone!! So my long term boyfriend called me this morning early... when I answered it was obvious he didn't mean to call me as I could hear him talking to a woman in the background, i could hear them giving out about the traffic. He copped about thirty seconds later that he was connected to me and said Hi .. sh1t sorry did you call me or did I call you? I then said you called me, whats going on? He said that he had just picked up a colleague of his to give her a ride into work as she had left her car into the garage. He then mentioned her name and I have met this girl before. A few years, even months ago I would have been crazy with paranoia, but I didn;t think the worst straight away, I'm quite proud of myself. We spoke tonight and he said he was worried all day that I was thinking he was cheating and also that his colleague was giving him slack all day for having to explain himself to me on the phone this morning as to who she was etc. No real questions here, just wanted to post up here to acknowledge how much I have come on. It was a good day. Thanks Link to comment
tjcalif Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 That Is a great accomlishment! Congrats... Link to comment
digdug Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 I've been there and that is not a friendly feeling. I know EXACTLY what you are talking about. Congrats! ~dig Link to comment
camus154 Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 This is actually a lot harder to do than you'd think. And it's nice to read something positive for a change....good job! Link to comment
princess5 Posted February 10, 2012 Author Share Posted February 10, 2012 Why should this be hard to do? Link to comment
DrKitten Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 I misinterpreted the title of this thread and thought, "Oh no! He really WAS cheating??!! Poor princess5..." And now I feel silly. But yay, good for you! Link to comment
Julimony Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 Same here! Haha Congrats!! Link to comment
CatchersRye Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 Congratz, good to hear. Link to comment
princess5 Posted February 11, 2012 Author Share Posted February 11, 2012 I'm so surprised at myself. He told me he was proud of me for not jumping to the wrong conclusion, he said the majority of girls would have done, and that I have gone up in his estimation since my calm reaction!! Girls.. being paranoid drives men away! Beware! Link to comment
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