singlecarefree Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 My hookup for the last year (no I haven't slept around, just wanted to be single) suddenly got emotional and decided to tell me that I mean something to him, yet he still only asks me to come over at 1 am! What the...? Why even bother saying that? This is getting too confusing. Link to comment
The_Seeker Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 My hookup for the last year (no I haven't slept around, just wanted to be single) suddenly got emotional and decided to tell me that I mean something to him, yet he still only asks me to come over at 1 am! What the...? Why even bother saying that? This is getting too confusing. Booty call. Then you're a female you might. Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 You do mean something to him. A booty call. Link to comment
RitaTrue Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 You do mean something to him. A booty call. This. I hate when guys use words like that "like you mean something to me"--just to flower up things from how they really are. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 Booty call. Nothing more. Link to comment
22n32 Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 His good, he knows how to keep u on the hook and guessing.. but its all about bang bang.. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 If he wanted to be in a relationship with you he would make that very clear because he wouldn't want to risk you being snapped up by other guys. Maybe he does have feelings for you but not strong enough to want to be involved with you beyond a sexual arrangement. If that's ok with you then keep seeing him. Link to comment
emily1804 Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 tell him your quite happy to see him again but only if he comes round to YOURS at half 2 in the morning. If he says yes then keep him, whether it is about sex or not (probably) at least you know he appreciates it!... Link to comment
FatedLove Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 I had a guy do this to me who said we were just friends.... I shouldnt have gone, but nothing happened. I bailed as soon as he looked like he was getting "comfy".... Link to comment
SpottiOtti Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 Wanna know if he really "cares" about you or if he's just saying crap to keep you from sleeping with anyone else? Stop sleeping with him. Link to comment
macadamia Posted February 10, 2012 Share Posted February 10, 2012 tell him your quite happy to see him again but only if he comes round to YOURS at half 2 in the morning. If he says yes then keep him, whether it is about sex or not (probably) at least you know he appreciates it!... Perfect response. I'm loving it. I started seeing a guy once and thought it weird that I was the one who always had to make the two hour train trip to his place to spend time together. When i brought it up and asked him if he could sometimes put in the effort to come to me I was rather eloquently told 'No one is holding a gun to your head' needless to say that was the last conversation I ever had with him Link to comment
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