JessicaW Posted February 9, 2012 Share Posted February 9, 2012 I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years this may. The longest relationship I have had prior to this was about 2 years. That relationship was bad. Very emotionally abusive. This one isn't like that but I feel like it's over. Not having all that anger to back up the decision is making it very hard for me. It's not that I don't care about my boyfriend it's just not what it used to be. I am constantly wondering why he is with me and feeling like it's more that he has nobody else and can't afford to live on his own than that he loves me. He is a survivor and if that's what it takes he'll do it. He stayed with his ex who was far worse for just as long. For the past two weeks I have been putting no effort into any kind of affection towards him and he hasn't even noticed. He's trading his car for a friends truck and is so stuck on that, that I don't exist. He hasn't showed any sexual interest in me either. Even before this is seemed like the only time he ever is very affectionate is when he wants sex. Whenever I try to say something about it he just tells me to stop or gets mad at me. Anytime I try telling him I feel like he is ignoring me he tells me it's my fault for some reason or another. He disregards my feelings every time I try to talk to him about this. I really just don't think I can do it anymore. I suck at this though, I don't know how to bring it up without it turning into a fight. and I do care about him and don't want to hurt him but I still feel like it will. I don't know what he is going to do, or what I am going to do. neither of us can afford to move out on our own. Link to comment
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