Procom Posted February 9, 2012 Share Posted February 9, 2012 So here is my deal, My ex girlfirned and I dated for 4 months. During our time together I thought things were going well. I never saw signs that things weren't. The last weekend we were together we had fun, hung out, and she spent the night. That following Wed. (3 days later) I called her up and began to talk about our plans for the upcoming weekend. She then told me she didn't want to do this over the phone, but she didn't feel that things were working out. I asked her if she was breaking up with me, and she didn't really come out and say that when I asked her the first time. Eventually she did say yes she was breaking up with me and wanted things to end. She told me she didn't feel that "whoosh of excitement" when she was planning on coming to see me or when she was with me. She then asked if we could still be friends. I told her I couldn't just be friends with her as I have feelings for her and I can't just scale them back like that. About 3 days later we met for coffee and she reiterated her stance face to face, we hugged, and then that was that. I began focusing on making myself happy by getting back to the gym, hanging with friends, and now I'm even in to yoga (which is awesome btw). At that time I also defriended her on facebook, btw. I didn't contact her for 3 weeks, but then I came accross a news article that actually mentioned where she works. So with that I emailed her noting that article and then just said, "Hope you are doing well." That night I got a reply email from her saying she had thought about txting/emailing me but she didn't want to push it and wanted to wait for me to contact her. She then said she was very happy to hear from me. She asked how I was doing, and then went on to tell me what her plans were for the weekend. She also told me how she has been working close to a 100 hours a week over the past couple of weeks. The next day I wrote her back, kept things light. I told her I was happy my email made her happy, and that we should meet up sometime. A few days later she wrote me another fairly lengthy email where she is excited to go on vacation in a couple of weeks. She also went on to say she has been really stressed at work and that she has been feeling sick. She then asked me about a couple other things she knew I was planning on doing before we broke up (like a ski trip I went on). She then said she would love to get together with me sometime, and to let her know what I was interested in doing. Then 2 days later she sent me a facebook friend request. I guess I am wondering if she is till interested in a relationship, or am I being pushed in to the friend zone? Link to comment
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