Charingx1 Posted February 9, 2012 Share Posted February 9, 2012 Hi all great advice in here now what do people think.... Ex dumped me 9 months ago. I was insecure. Lack of trust. We work together. Nightmare! So I beg plead etc for ages no joy. Then I go nc. I get therapy I deal with issues and stop thinking about her constantly. In the meantime she dates, none of them work out. Few months ago she emails once in a whole how's my life etc it's not easy for her and she misses me and stares at me at work. I go on holiday for 2 months total nc. I get back and she's emailing, cuddles at lunch etc. I have a slight lapse when I tell her I still am in love with her and friends is difficult. She says " nothing ever lasts with us, yes we had a couple of good days and it changed..... Whatever! But it always goes back to this" Since then I decided to just be nice chill out etc as I leave work in a month and see how it goes. She emails me all dy long we have lunch every day. She never contacts me outside work though. She has stopped dating and is flirty with me ie talks about sex etc. I've said to her don't think u have to talk to me while I'm here she said she talks because she wants to and hasn't processed the fact I'm leaving. Do people think she's testing the water? Seeing if I've changed? I'm going to carry on talking to her til I leave I'm fine with it, but what then? I've said to her if u want to c me then it will have to be outside work, she didn't have an answer. I want her back but can't carry on after I go Link to comment
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