1TAKENi Posted February 9, 2012 Share Posted February 9, 2012 I have decided that the man Ive been with for a year and a half that dumped me obviously wants his own space. I love him and I want to respect his wishes. But, I also love myself because I know that if I keep calling , texting, and IMing me, he's only going to run away from me even further. It took me 4 months to get past the phase of HOPE. I thought that maybe in our 6 encounters we have had since the break up he would miss me and want reconciliation. I was wrong. I dont want to be friends with him, because I know that we feel indifferent. The fact of the matter is Ive made so many mistakes and now that he is gone I realize how dumb I was, he had his flaws too, but I believe I was the reason he left me. I am now enrolled in school and working so I feel like Im going somewhere in life. All these things are helping me cope with my breakup. The problem is when I think of him (which is all the time) I feel really depressed He told me loves me and will always care about me. And says maybe it was wrong timing when we dated. He is the kind of guy that doesnt date that much. He has only had 3 gfs including me and he is 26. He is honest and really caring. After four months Ive decided to cut all contact with him, not that he calls me or anything but Ive decided to remove myself from his life completely so that I could give him SPACE, and hopefully (not counting on it) he comes back to me later in life. He knows I want to be better to him. Ive told him this numerous times after the break up. The longest Ive gone without talking to him was like for a week or almost two. But my temptation always messed my count up Im always thinking about the fun times we had and now that Im lonely I miss him and felt like he was a really important part of my life. I dont want to date for a long time because I know that Im not going to get over him. It hurts that he seems like he's past me;although, I dont know if this is true. Today its been like 3 days. I have not felt tempted all though I do check up on him always trying to see how he is doing. I miss him terribly. But I know it has to be done. I have to let him go. What should I do if he calls me or texts me (but has no intentions in being with me)? Link to comment
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